Other People’s Goals
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Four Questions I Ask Before Joining a Group Challenge
Group challenges pulled me into more wellness goals than any ad ever did. These are the four questions that now stop me before I sign up for someone else's plan.
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How I Exit a Goal Without Explaining Myself to Anyone
Once I could tell a goal was not mine, I still had to figure out how to actually drop it. Here is…
How I Learned to Spot a Goal That Was Never Mine
For a long time my to-do list was full of things I never actually chose. Here is the short list of clues…
The Family Expectation I Mistook for My Own Goal
I spent two years chasing a version of healthy that my family had been describing since I was a teenager. Here is…
The Morning I Realized My Feed Was Setting My Goals
I used to think I was choosing my wellness priorities. One ordinary morning showed me how much of that choosing was actually…